This is what confidence looks like: booking a last-minute flight to NY during NYFW and doing a photoshoot with a photographer who truly gets the magic of brown skin women. That shoot was everything I needed—sometimes, we all need that reminder of who the hell we are because, trust me, I forget too.

I packed a few killer looks, including my fabulous Shingo green dress with pockets. Lately, fashion has felt a bit off for me. I’m still fearless and fashionable, but mentally and spiritually, I’m shifting. Fashion has been my jam since I was five, but I’ve felt a disconnect lately—maybe because my finances aren’t where I want them to be or I just haven’t been in the right spaces to get inspired.

But I’m ready to step into this new version of me. This photoshoot and being in New York was a breath of fresh air, reigniting my passion and reminding me to be the best version of myself—because really, who else am I supposed to be? Putting together looks and dreaming about the outcome was such a rush. It felt amazing to have people on the street complimenting my designs, not even knowing I created the dress.

While New York isn’t my forever home, I love the city’s vibe and the way it celebrates fashion and individuality. I rocked my own brand and snagged a few pieces from my favorite spots, ASOS and Marshalls—those never disappoint! If you’re looking for the perfect blend of highs and lows, those are the places to hit. Need links? Check my LTK; you won’t regret it!

And let’s be real: society often tries to say that expensive is the only way to feel confident. But I’m here to remind you that confidence is all about being you and rocking what makes you feel amazing in your own shoes.

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